Lelaki Tak Suka Perempuan Terhegeh-hegeh

Salam.

Bila dia menolak, kau pun naik gila sampai jadi gila bayang. Padahal kau bukan tergila-gilakan dia sangat, tapi rasa tercabar. Sebab tercabar, kau pun jadi terhegeh-hegeh dengan dia. Lelaki tak suka perempuan yang terhegeh-hegeh. Sudah lumrah lelaki adalah pemburu.

Banyak lagi cara lain yang kau boleh lakukan untuk mencuri hati dia. Sabar itu perlu. Tak perlulah sampai kelihatan terdesak. Kau perlu tahu, masih ramai lagi lelaki yang bersifat ortodoks. Mereka tak dapat menerima hakikat yang perempuan pun boleh memulakan langkah pertama untuk memikat.

Jadi sebelum bertindak, kenal pasti dulu sama ada dia jenis yang terbuka atau masih lagi kolot dalam soal berkaitan cinta.

Pathetic Me

It's weird thinking that you are surrounded by so many people, but deep inside your heart you feel so alone. Lonely. That is how i feel. Honestly, when  i read Hanis Zalikha's entry on Kepentingan Bestfriend, i couldn't relate any of those kelebihan to myself. Pity me, ha?

It's true, like i said before that I'm surrounded  by many people, but i don't have what i called sahabat sejati. True friend. No, I'm not being demanding. I'll be good when you do the same to me. But it seems very hard for me to find a friend who can accept me for who i am. A person who tried to understand my deeds instead of judging.

And yes, i don't need a friend who changes when i change and who nods when i nod. My shadow does that much better. I need a friend who can tell me what's wrong about myself because i might not recognize it by myself. I need a friend who are not afraid to tell me the truth even it's hurt, for the sake of myself.

Oh boy, am i asking for too much? If only i can learn that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.